being your own "cup of tea..."

This isn't the plane I flew.....but someday:)

You can be so many things in life, but one thing that I've learned (and to a certain point, am constantly learning again and again) is that the most important way to be, is the way that truly makes you happy.  Not ego happy, like the way that you feel when you buy something new......but deep down, authentically happy and joyful....like a child if that's still possible?  It's a funny feeling for me, the more that I decide to do what I really want, and follow my heart.....the more I realize I am not everyone's cup of tea!  When you start living just for you, and not to please other people, you just don't please other people all the time!  The choices you make, and the experiences you have are yours, and yours alone.

I guess, to a point, I've realized that I'm a little unconventional.  The name Missfittgirl.......comes from me, and of course, there is a reason.  I'm an adventurous tomboy, who loves to try new things, and am very capable, I think I can do just about anything that I set my mind to:  flying a plane, racing mountain bikes, taming unruly horses (ok, maybe just trying to tame them....but I was never scared doing it:), I'm also freakishly strong, and determined like a Marine when it comes to my weight training, and exercise in general.......and then I have another side, that loves beauty, and all of the wonderful things that come with it.  Whatever I am, I find that the more I become, and the higher I reach.....the more aware I am of some sideways glances telling me to be a little quieter with my laugh, stop reaching for the sky, and act more like a lady?  I'm choosing to focus on what I want, in fact.....I think I'll put on my David Clark pilot's headset and tune out all that noise.......because who came up with that definition of a lady?  I'm writing my own right now...........

Stay gorgeous and healthy,

Megan